Ah, what a nice lunch! Sarcasm anyone? Well, I got home and W told me that she was trying to call me on the cell phone (it never rang) so she could find out what my plans were so she could make her plans around mine, like she always has to. Really nasty, and angry. So she's asking me what I've got planned for later, even though I emailed her that I had planned to work tonight. "Or are you not going to tell me" she says. Last night I went out with an old friend I haven't talked to in years. I wrote about this previously. This person I went to see, according to my wife, doesn't like my wife, and I shouldn't want to see someone that has anything against her. Well, I didn't really tell her who I was going to see, but she didn't ask either. I guess she's angry about this to some degree. Anyway, she goes on and on about how she always has to plan around me, even though I asked her if she had any opportunity to go out or do something, because I would gladly reschedule working in order for her to go out, especially since I was out every night this week (for work T and W and out with my friend last night - which I pointed out and told her she needed a break). She ALWAYS IMs with OM on Friday nights. I guess he found something better to do than rescue poor W from her horrible life. So, I didn't really see this coming AT ALL. So she told me that she didn't have plans, and that she couldn't make them now if she tried. That and we needed the money, so I should work.

I can't help but to wonder whether she was expecting to talk to OM tonight and he bailed, so she's SOL and pissed at the world about it. God forbid she spend some quality time by herself! I say this, but I am sensitive to her need to get out.

So I ask her "how are you?" and I get "I'm fine, fine with everything else. It's just you that annoys me."

Ok, so, this still say to me that she cares about our relationship. If she didn't she would accept things and move on. She's not doing that. So I can't just ignore this and say to myself that she's not happy, I have to step in and change SOMETHING to address this. Right?


“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ”
– Albert Einstein