Quote: My advice to you is this: if he calls talk about the girls, don't bring up your M. Whatever he says to you, stay strong with your boundaries-- it's great that he wants to put your name on the bank account, but it doesn't change the fact that he has to support his children.
EVERYONE keeps saying this. and DON'T I KNOW IT! But read the post right before this one. . . maybe you will understand my issue.
I COULD CARE LESS WHAT KEVIN WANTS RIGHT NOW!!!! I WANT MY GIRLS TAKEN CARE OF!
I am tired of just squeaking by . . . It's been cold here and I just bundle everyone up cause I can't afford my gas bill hardly now . . . let alone when the heat has to start going on. It seems crazy. I know he could pay these bills without even blinking. CANCELING THE SUPPORT IS ABOUT POSSIBLY GETTING MORE MONEY! I see all the problems with it. . . but I also see where it could be 10X's better. UGH
I just don't know what to do. I don't want to cancel the support . . . because I want him to have to pay . . . but good God right now I need more than his little help. I need his BIG help . . . at least until I get my license and a job. . . then he can take off again and we can get divorced.
