Emily, make no decisions now just based on one (MORE) phonecall.
Don't jump back in with both feet.
Don't start calling him, either.
Stay DISTANT and let HIM do the talking.
You can validate if he starts talking about the relationship, try very hard to see things from his point of view.
There were A LOT of reasons he got off course and having a family with another baby on the way and a crappy job (back then) only added to the issues he brought INTO your marriage.
You have to see and understand that the problems were and are MUCH DEEPER than Cassie. She was just a symptom remember? Like a sore caused by the herpes virus . EWWWW!
Be careful, Emily. I do like to think of the best of people. But I don't trust your husband this close to that support hearing. I'm sorry. But I had to say it.
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