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I my Dad has to go to the town that the DOT office is and he's going to stop in and see if you have to make an appointment to take your drivers test . . . and schedule one for me I think if you do.



THAT is exactly what I meant.
Good job!


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Umm . . I finally went through the paper . . there was nothing in there. A bunch of jobs my H could take with his CDL but nothing for me.
UGH . . . I hate living in a little town!



Try Careerbuilder.com.
A lot of places don't post ads in the paper anymore.
It won't hurt to look.
There are other sites as well.


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I also tried to call my case worker lady at Domestic Relations . . but of course she wasn't in. I left a message and I'll probably have to call her back tomorrow. *rolls eyes* . . . I'm going to ask what all I need to bring . . and also ask about him not showing up and explain the whole sitch if necessary.



Good.
Keep trying to reach her.
Remember?
The squeaky wheel gets the grease .


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I guess I just figured divorce would stop the cycle because it would feel like closure. Not the kind I wanted. . . but at least some finality.




I know.
I'm sorry but you're still going to have a process to go through so you might as well go through the one you're already in...right?


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I guess I'm trying to talk myself into believing that if we got that peice of paper out of the way . . . it would miracliously free me.



You're looking for a different kind of "free".

You're going to find it, too.
But not through divorce.