Quote: Or are you so focused on how this whole situation makes YOU feel that you've lost sight of the pain that your H might be in? What pain could he possibly be in. and who the hell cares? He's made the bed for himself. . . so now I'm suppose to feel bad for him because he's done this to himself?
Quote: Here's the thing, Emily. I do believe your H will be back. I believe he does want to work things out with you. But every time you show this insecure, immature, overreactionary side of yourself to him, he will retreat. I only did ANY of this AFTER he bolted again. It all started when he called me Friday night and said he had to go down to Carlisle. I got quiet and he got mad. I never heard from him again. I knew he was going to see her. And it sounds like the OW is not much better, so I bet he's feeling really trapped right now. Have you ever tried to really look at things from HIS perspective? NO . . .and what might that be? I don't take the time to care . . . I've said it over and over lately. HE DID THIS TO HIMSELF . . . why should I care what he feels?
