Quote: Otherwise, 50 years from now when you're at your grandkids' college graduation, you'll still be hating Kevin as the two of you watch your grandchildren together, hating each other. So what if we hate each other. She'll be sitting right on the other side of him adding fuel to his fire . . . thinking she can stake a claim to something that is soley mine. Who gives a rip . . I understand what you are saying RB. Really I do. He has made these choices. I know that I now have the choice of being the bigger person and choosing to forgive his actions. But WHY? Why should I invest the time. Nothing is ever going to change about this sitch. NOTHING is going to change his mind. Besides who says that he'll have ANY interest in our grandkids? He barely even shows interest in our kids. I mean geesh I called him about them what two night ago . . . and he NEVER called back. HE DOESN'T CARE!
