Quote: However lately I have noticed the changes I have made are really taking on a momentum and a life of there own. I am excited about the future for the first time in my life
This is SO key! Don't worry - your wife will naturally have her doubts, just as you may have your doubts about her as your R comes back together. Time will show the truth to her, and to you.
My H told me he started to fall back in love with me even as he was still in the throes of romantic feelings for the OW. You are absolutely on the right track - and I hope someday you can say what I can now say - that as painful as this has been, it was also the best thing that ever happened to our R.
Ellie
JJ
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