This is why I think goal setting is such a good idea.
When I first started to DB, I read the bit a out Goal setting and I thought... hmmm skip that bit.
Then I came on here and Jamesjohn grabbed me on my goals and I thought gawd I will have to do this ( Thanks JJ )
So I set my first goal, was just a small goal, but it was something that told me I was heading in right direction, it seemed stupid at the time.
2 weeks later it was reached, I thought hmmm fluke, I know pessamist aint I ?
So I set some more, within a month these goals were reached. Now the point is if you are on a journey and you have your map and you keep hitting towns which are on the map, well you know you are going the right way, if you dont see those towns then u turn around go back and start again.
When I kept reaching my goals, I could no longer keep beleiving this was a fluke, I had to start beleiving I was half way through my journey.
When I got to this point it was a little easier to continue, it got a little harder, but Hey!! I had my map
so if you both feel you are getting Baby steps, set some goals, just small things that would tell you you are on right track, then work out Action oriented things you can do to get those things to happen. It Works!!!
Sue
JJ
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