Thanks, RB. Guess I know that staying "dark" is about the only thing that might make WH miss "us" and realize what all he will be losing if we divorce, just hard because it feels so passive, and I so want something to change, soon !
Sorry to hear you are dealing with a similiar situation and would be glad to hear more of your details- maybe we can be good supporters for each other.
Had very little contact with WH last week- had some brief correspondence via email regarding a problem/question our our health insurance and that was it. Had a strange happening tonight- my cell phone rang and the number was one I did not recognize. I answered, and heard some background noise like people talking, then a female voice that said "Who is this ?" I just hung up, but then realized it was OW's voice. A few minutes later my phone rang again, but I didn't answer and no one left a message. I am guessing that OW must have either snooped in WH's phone or gotten into the phone bill/statements at his house and found my number, then called to see who it was- something she has done before as she is very insecure and paranoid ! (She even called WH's daughter's house last year, demanding to know who it was, because she'd found the number in WH's phone !) I feel irritated because while OW has called our house phone before, she never had my cell number and now she apparently does. I hope she won't start calling it (although I won't be answering any calls if I don't recognize the numbers) as my phone is on a "family plan" with WH, with him as the primary, and I don't think I can change my number. Also, until I get a new job (have been unemployed for 2 months after losing my job in July) I don't have the money to get my own phone/plan right now-
