Meet Cemar. Cemar, meet oncehappy. Cemar, she is an individual, her marriage is individual, your one size fits all formula is too simplistic. I'll bet she can tell you that there is a lot more to this whole deal than can be taken care of by your formula. Yes, Cemar the dearth of sex led to some issues in the relationship which probably (in part) led to oncehappy's H acting out.
Oncehappy, what led to the lack of sexual interest. How do you feel now? How do you feel about sex in general. You H in general? You marriage in general? There are a lot of reasons that things go awry and we all wish it were as simple to fix as the seduction scene you planned. Heck, we all wish it were as simple as Cemar's suggestion.
There are some wise people around here. I've learned a lot and I bet you will too.
