You are Definitely in a SSM. Your husband exhibits classic signs of being sex starved. Wen men are sex starved, it brings out all the negative traits that women dislike. If he is not sex starved, then most likely he would LOVE to spend time with you. The way to solve this is to have sex at HIS frequency, and to make sure that you make it OBVIOUS that you want it. It's ALL about desire. It's actually NOT about the sex, it is about your ability to SHOW him that YOU want sex FROM him. If you have sex FOR him, you will fail! I will warn you that men can EASILY see whn women are doing it for us rather then doing it for themselves, YOU CAN NOT FAKE SEXUAL DESIRE! And it is ALL about the desire, and that is something you must show 24/7.
