We have been married for 3 years and have a D 4 and I have a step-daughter 8. We are both fulltime students (me masters, he bachelors) and we both work. Our sex life has been very off and on since I became pregnant with our D(my mother died a few days after we found out, which did not help)Since then there have been really good times and then times when sex has felt like such an obligation to me it has held no pleasure for me. It seems like a pretty common story, he would hassell me and I would give in and then after the affair the dynamic has changed. He no longer harasses me and I still have to force myself because it is just not a priority for me. Thats what I am trying to change. I hope that is what you were looking for.