Hi I am new here. I just found this site yesterday and decided to take the great american sex challenge. I started last night and gave my husband the best evening we have had together since we were dating. I also planned all day for a romantic evening (got a sitter, made a special dinner, bought new makeup, shaved areas that havent seen are razor in a long time, put on his favorite scented lotion, pulled out his favorite lingerie and sent him sexy text messages all day while he was at work). He calls me on his way home to inform me that he will be coming home for dinner but then working through the night until about 8 in the morning. I am trying to stay focused on what a wonderful thing this would be for our marriage and how much healing could take place(H had affair a little over a year ago) but it is hard when he never even considered me in the equation. So here I sit on this board getting ready to put my kids in bed and spend an evening smelling lovely alone. Any advice on how to stick with this and try and force myself to be in the mood for him even though he is not being considerate of me.
