A big thank you to all the people on this site that have helped me over the past few months. I was looking to this site to help me get over the W and to accept we were nothing but friends. However in the short time with the advice of so many good folks (exp John) i turned the 1 yr seperation into a success story. The wife and I are going to counciling, i'm moving back in, we are communicating at a deeper level than we ever did in the past 13yrs. I am sure i will be checking back from time to time just to get a refresher course, and to say hi to all my new found friends. But please don't think i'm rude for going dim on you guys (im not DBing you), its just that at this stage of moving back home and working on the marriage my time will be limited. But I will always be avail to anyone who needs my advice or my story, you have my email addy.
Good luck to you all, and take it from me. 1 yr of seperation and doing everything wrong but it is never too late to do some good DBing. I know i still have a long journey ahead of me to keep our marriage great, but at lest i know the the W and me will be working together on it this time, and I have a great support group in all of you.
Kevin
JJ
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