OK Guys, Here is some inspiration for you.........
I have been away for the last few days because I have basically been having a second honeymoon with my wife without going anywhere.
She is wearing her rings, she told me and everybody else that she wanted to make our marriage work and things seem like they are better than ever. After having sex maybe three times over the past six months, we have surpassed that in one week. For the guys out there, I can tell you what my wife told me. The most attractive thing she saw in me was my confidence. She said it was the first thing that made her want me back. Confidence guys. Remember that.
My wife had gone as far as paying a retainer on a divorce lawyer a few months ago, but I was able to tunr things around by DB'ing. But you have to realize that for about 5 weeks, I really wasn't DB'ing even though I thought I was.
Here are the phases of my recovery
1 - Stop negative momentum 2 - create atmosphere where spouse feels comfortable contacting you and spending time with you. STOP THE PRESSURE AND GET A LIFE 3 - Learn to detatch from the rejection, not from your spouse. There is a difference. 4 - Create mystery not jealousy. 5 - Forgive when they return 6 - Make your changes real. Do it for yourself not to trick your spouse.
If anybody has any questions for me, please feel free to list them here.
Just know that the faster you detach and start looking out for yourself, the faster your situation is fixed.
I wish the best for everybody on here. There is hope. Questions?
JJ
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