How to Piece????

[runningoutoftime]

Thanks everyone for the very much needed kick in the tush!
I really needed this.

I've been reading and rereading these responses and have to say they make a lot of sense. I'm going to work on committing them to memory.

I really like the idea that I'm not ready to know about the A now and he's not ready to deal with it either. Maybe someday, at some future time after a lot of healing has occurred, and we're both comfortable with it, we can explore it a little further (perhaps in therapy), but for now we just need to work on building up a friendship and a strong healthy relationship.

I really appreciate your responses. It does make a big difference.