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For you (dare I say), you might need to find ways to make your H feel significant - to avoid the "home improvement committee" thing (Cat, are you reading??




OK, who are you and how did you know?? I did devalue my H, second guessing anything he did, telling him how I knew "a better way" to do something he had done, critizing and getting angry when he did something on his own without consulting me.

Matilda has a good point though, pre-bomb I thought I was letting him go into the cave to heal, but turns out he was just shutting me out. Though things are different now and by now I'll realize if he's been in the cave too long something is up.

I want to give up the presidency of the home improvement committe, I really am trying!


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.