Probably the more difficult part for me is all the ugly and mean things he said and did to me around the split. That's the stuff that sometimes haunts me. However, this is all still relatively recent (Feb/Mar/April) so I probably need to expect it's going to take time to recover from that. Do you ever experience these similar feelings and memories?
Yes I do. There are times when I think that I've forgiven him and can move forward with him but then there are days I'm haunted by his feelings and interaction he had with OW. Even though they are no longer together, it still hurts.
I was talking with a woman the other day who fired her first attorney because he cost her $150K
Wow!
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years