Where is your divorce now? Did you both put it on-hold or end it? Did you spend a huge amount of money on this whole thing as well?
The divorce is on hold. Eventually the courts will dismiss it if H or I don't move forward with it. Actually, the papers were drawn up rather cheap and just a filing fee. No lawyers involved and we were to agree with the papers.
Thanks for the book recommendation. I'll be sure to check it out.
Does your H know he can count on you at the drop of a hat and know that you will be there for him, but when you ask for something he can't come through for you? If so, how do you handle that?
In my sitch, if I tell H that I can't do something for him, he will get a little tiffed at me, like a spoiled kid. 9 times out of 10 I'm there for him.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years