How to Piece????

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Do you feel your husband has learned anything from this? Does he ever talk about it?

He sure has! though some days it doesn't seem like. He's learned that he did have a big part of our separation, that he does say insensitive and crass things, that it isnt' just me being "oversensitive"

And heck NO, he never talks about what he's learned, he is too ashamed to actually say "you know what, I was wrong when I did this and this to you", unless we have an argument it is tabu, we never talk about it.

I probably shouldn't overanalize this. He does tend to choose the wrong words sometimes

Yup, can't hang on every word, how many times my H and I have gone into a stupid circle of she said/he said because of something i either misunderstood or he said the wrong way.