How to Piece????

[cat03]

Reconciliation for us was odd and quick. We had gone on a family vacation (slep separately) on April 2, I brought up R talk, he said his T told him we should date each other and see if we still had something or if we still worked together.
On April 10 he tells me he is lonely and wants to move back if it is ok w/me. A half ass appology came out "I lost my head there for a while" but that's all he said. I dont' know when the op broke it off w/him but I'm guessing that it was right after our vacation.

He had a L and had separation papers the year before, he showed them to me and was "doing me a favor" by having me fill out the section about the house and money matters and stuff. I too stalled big time. After a few months and many talks, a few C sessions he was convinced I wouldn't rake him across the coals if we ever got to court so he dropped L THOUGH he still talked about selling home and kids' custody.
Eventually he just stopped talking and I never brought it up.

I think you've said your peace, it's him who now has to get off the fence and decide. I guess the paperwork is still going on?
At some point the paperwork will require attention and that's when you guys will have to talk about it. I wouldnt mention anythign about D though, it seems like he wants back, I surely hope so, my H would only call me on the phone at the best of times, but never came often nor did many things together. Good luck!