Ok, I'm looking for opinions and expert advice: spouse spent the night with OW as per usual 2 nights per week. That really builds my self esteem let me tell ya! Anyway, spouse just sent me an email asking if we should go to dinner tonight? AAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
Do I WANT to go? Yes, I'd love some just us time. Who is "we"? Is it just us or are we dragging daughter along so no real communication takes place? Would spouse learn more about how I feel if I decline? (in light of the fact that this is guilt, asking me to dinner) Do I swallow my pride yet again and slap a smile on my broken heart and go to dinner or do I calmly decline? HELP ME!!!!!!!
Patience is not only a virtue, sometimes it is an impossibility.
