Kitty Here is an article I've read and listening to young men while serving overseas who were products of broken families I'd say it's fairly accurate.
Personally my X can relate with you outside of the cheating but the being gone too often while she is home did create much friction. She jumped off the divorce cliff but I ran us up to it. The base cause was my self centeredness and all the crap done to justify/satisfy it. Woke up too late.
10 years from now will your kids be better or worse? Only you can answer that and I am not judging.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
