W Never Left, But This Is Tough!

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and that people who truly have their acts together don't screw other people's spouses, or cheat on their own.

very true. And don't beat yourself up about thinking that because of your behavior she went to op, she had a mouth, she could've sat you down and say "you knwo waht TL, you are alianating me by doing xyz and I'd like for us to xyz" then again, I did say that to my H before he left but he had already set his mind on the crazy train.

I've already won

Yes, we've all learned so much that we wont take things for granted anymore.