W Never Left, But This Is Tough!

[cat03]

Still feels like I been kicked in the gut by a mule.
Oh well...it's only been three months...maybe it gets easier.

I'm also getting kicked here a bit, the problem is I am the one teasing the mule so it can kick me, evoquing stuff I know about H and the PA.
Then common sense kicks in and reminds me that H was in path on his own at the time, that he didn't have all his marbles and that he was trying to cure his misery, not looking for a soul mate like when he was w/me.

She said she would give anything for the mood between us to be restored to how good it was before the "slip".

I was about to say, "Yeah, me too" when I realized I *could* restore it.

My H also mentioned yesterday how we keep having arguments (your slip ups). I think we all need to remember we WILL have plenty of those, my H needs to understand that they are bound to happen and not see them as a sign of failure in us. You guys also don't hold your breaths, there will be other incidents, and it is how we handle them that make a difference, not how many times we mess up.

Glad you realized you had the power to put the issue behind you, it's also been 3mts for me since I uncovered the A, so I think all things considered you and I are doing just fine