I'd be interested to hear what your MC has to say. Ours is supportive of us formulating our own game plan so long as we're both comfortable with it.
As far as the "incident" goes...I took a good long run after I posted here. I've found if I can get out and do that, a good attitude follows cause I'm too tired to be upset, I feel good after I finish feeling tired, and I pray a lot while I run, and God answers prayer.
I *sigh* apologized to my W for letting that bum me out even though I didn't mean to do it in a manipulative way. She apologized as well. Things still felt funny though.
We went up to church to take our son to youth group and to attend a meeting. Got there early, so we sat and talked a bit. She said she would give anything for the mood between us to be restored to how good it was before the "slip".
I was about to say, "Yeah, me too" when I realized I *could* restore it. So we just sort of decided together it wasn't a problem anymore, and it wasn't.
So we trucked on. Attended our meeting. Interestingly enough, it was for parents of kids in the youth group to tell us about a program they were starting where they'd be discussing things like promiscuity, std's, moral boundaries, etc.
We went home, had a good night, had our "date", hit the sack.
Tell you what, for all the valleys and peaks, what I wouldn't give right now for a nice, long, loving plateau!
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
