Quote: My concern is that by ML when she's really just "acting as if" will sort of just reinforce the negatives...sort of call attention to the fact that she doesn't feel anything for me...even though she says she wants to, just can't.
Okay, pardon my indelicate question here, but - does she have an orgasm when you ML? I have a medical reason for asking this. Oxytocin is released in the brain during orgasm, and it is a "bonding" hormone - the same one that bonds women to their newborns. So, IF she's orgasmic with you, ML could eventually bond her back to you through that hormonal route (If she never comes with you, and you don't think she will, then all bets are off, I guess.)
