Around the time I found out about the Striver situation, W asked me not to post about her or him anymore - it was clearly hurting her and that is the last thing I would want. At that time, I resigned myself to let her go, not to see Striver but to let her go from the standpoint that I would respect her decision to move on. David, I intend to stay true to my promise and will therefore not respond to your questions directly. I will simply add that I am GAL and trying to make the most of my sitch. I fully intend to continue being active on this board - this journey must be about me, for me and my kids, and indirectly for my W. I will try to offer what support I can to others in the process. I really do feel that I will come out of this a better human being, and a better father.
It may be too late, but I'll be damned if it's going to be too little!