This happens between two people who are emotionally immature and have learned to get their needs fulfilled by others rather than themselves.
Frank had some wonderful advice to give you, his insight hits the points of this situation dead on.You have been blessed to have Frank supporting you thru this. He is a very smart Man who also loves unconditionally. My H was also looking for someone else to make him happy.It simply does not work. None of the information makes it less painful but it helps it get difused when you understand it. My prayers are with you honey as this willl be one of the HARDEST THINGS YOU GO THRU. I pray that one day you will be strong again and smile all day LONG. My love and prayers are with you. GOD bless you...