Let me first start off by saying thank you to all of you for offering your support and feedback on this issue - I trust that Mrs C. will take all of the above information to heart and will make the correct decision for herself.
You have provided me with the necessary support to get through what has come to be the most horrifically painful time of my life. This board is a lifesaver and it is most unfortunate that it is no longer a safe place for me to get the emotional support and advice I need, without hurting the one person I care most about in the world. So, let us all put this mess behind us and move on.
That said, I think some of you went a little overboard and vented some of your own anger and frustrations towards my W. She is a good person and many of the above comments were very hurtful to her. In spite of my position on what is occurring, I hold no malice towards her and hope that we can put the nastiness to bed.
I still intend to post and, when I am in a healthier place will continue to try and offer what advice I can to others. I may also continue to post on my threads as I start to rebuild my life but it should no longer be about Mrs. C or our relationship – that ship has sailed.
Thank you all, I hope your day is filled with baby steps!
