Oh Cherrish;

I am so sorry to hear this, infact a bit taken back!!!! You know something hon. misery loves company....And if both of them are as sick as their actions...well sweetie, they are going to fall hard!!!!

Thank God for your families sake you have your head on your shoulders...cause I am sorry to say, but your wife has some very serious issues...I could not even imagine how she could just go to a man like that, so far away and feel safe.....

I too have never read this guys stich...but as we can see, we have to be careful for those that come on and are "pretending" to be hurt....

Sweetie; I am not exspert here, but I do believe you need to get on with your life.....your wife has issues that are going to take a pretty long time to work out..and you sweetie are going to really have to detach and let her make her mistakes and get to the end of herself. I am so going to be praying for you both...but I know with God, He really is in the business of blessings...and alot of the time He lets us reap what we sow, so that, like in your wifes case, she can get to the end of herself so that she can call out to Him, and He then can begin healing her. But sweetie this is a long process, please do not put your life on hold.....

I will keep checking...but I will be moving in a few days, and will not have the internet for awhile...but know hon, that I am praying!!!!!

Love ya
(((((((love and prayers)))))))))
liz7