this is really a bizarre development and you have my deepest sympathy. I have to agree with Missing. At the momemt your W is deluded by the fantasy of this person, and cold reality may be a nasty shock for her.
Do you have any friends or family in the UK where she can stay, or at least have a safe refuge to go to if she realises what kind of man this Striver is? I have to say in the light of this development I find his posts rather disturbing.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei
