words cannot describe what I'm feeling after reading this. I can't imagine what you're going through.
you seem like the type of guy that can climb any mountain that is put in front of him, and while this sitch is like Mt Everest, this might be the push that pushes you over the top. If my comments are out of line, I hope you forgive me as they are well intended.
to Mrs C and the preditor.
The line of " it just happened" is utter bullshit. you "met" on the net, what, two months ago? and you think what you "have" is so supereme and above all else, that you can use it to hammer the final nails into a familys coffin?? let me clue you in. we as humans have something the stray dogs in the street don't have. That is the ability to reason. to weigh the pros and cons of a situation and make the best decision for all involved. you havent demonstrated this ability, rendering you the equivilant of said stray dogs.
Mrs C no matter how wide the brush, or how expensive the paint. you will NEVER be able to paint a picture of your actions to you husband, your children, your family, that will hide the raunchyness, the selfishness, the completely insanity of your past and present actions. once you cross the pond, you will not be thought of as the "strong, intelligent" woman you so want to world to see you as. you'll be regarded as just a thoughtless, selfish "tart" that destroyed a family that only wanted to show you that they loved and supported you.
striver:
there is no excuse for you.
there is no forgiving you. you're the scum on the ring of a toilet bowl.
you acted like you "shared" cherrish's pain to abtain a selfish and evil gain. you deserve every bad thing this world has to offer you.
I apologize to the board and most of all to cherrish for my blunt post. I couldnt find a way to sugar-coat it and I felt it needed to be said.
Cherrish, I wish and pray for you that you get what you deserve, and that is peace and happiness.
