This has got to be the most insane thing I have ever heard.
Striver ~ I am sure you are still reading because this current discussion will feed your stupid, sick ego right where it needs it.
Mrs C. ~ You take the friggin cake. There is NO excuse for this behavior. Show your husband a little respect by at least sparing him that pie-in-the-sky bullsh*t about it "just happening". You are an incredibly ignorant & cruel person.
Be sure to get tested for STD's when you get back to the States.