This has got to be the most insane thing I have ever heard.

Striver ~ I am sure you are still reading because this current discussion will feed your stupid, sick ego right where it needs it.

Mrs C. ~ You take the friggin cake.
There is NO excuse for this behavior.
Show your husband a little respect by at least sparing him that pie-in-the-sky bullsh*t about it "just happening".
You are an incredibly ignorant & cruel person.

Be sure to get tested for STD's when you get back to the States.