Hello again everyone - and thank you for the support. As Liz pointed out, this is very real and it is happening. Striver feels that it was out of their control...it just happened...they have something "real".
I am very concerned that he is a predator and yet, I realize that there is little I can do. I must admit that I did not mind or worry about her talking with Striver because I knew her intelligence and judgement would NEVER allow her to get involved, let alone travel half way around the globe to see someone she does not know. It's just too crazy and she is an intelligent woman. I truly am scared for her and fear that she is walking into a situation that she will have no control over. She is an adult and can make her own decisions - you are right...but I do not believe that this is using sound judgement by anyone's standards and I am very worried about her.
