Well, well, well. I've been wondering about you, but never doubting you. I am so happy for both of you. IT's no wonder to my why you are making things work so wonderfully. You both are wonderful! I just completed a chapter in my next book about keeping the changes going in marriages that have been repaired and your story brings what I was writing to life. Being solution-oriented MUST be a way of life if your marriage is to sustain the positive changes. It's odd to say this, David, but for those of us who have been reading about you all along, it's actually a positive that things went downhill for a while because the real test is pulling yourself up again and getting back on track. We all have to do that from time to time. Even in my own marriage, my husband and I are totally committed to each other and love each other completely, but that doesn't mean that things are always smooth. They're not. You have to practice what you know about solution-oriented thinking all the time. You and your wife are a shining example of two people who truly understand what it takes to make a marriage loving. And what a blessing that is. Once you see that you can get your marriage on track again and again, you really begin to have a sense that the two of you can weather any storm together. And in my opinion, there is no greater feeling than knowing you're teammates. So lots of love to you both. Thanks for sharing your highs and your lows. And whatever you do, don't stop.
