I didn't read Striver's sitch, but it kinda makes me wonder. I never thought about it before, but this board would be a great place for a scumbag to make up a story to try to get close to a woman who is in a vulnerable state.
Yes, this could be dangerous and is definitely stupid. Unfortunately, everyone is right; you can't control her.
I'm so sorry to hear this. You've helped so many other people on here. You're a great guy and don't deserve this.