That's a stab in the back. I think the whole thing is pretty disgusting. Unfortunately, like others have pointed out, she's an adult so you don't have a lot of control over this. All you can do is let her go. Although, more than likely, she'll get there and learn that Striver has some really bad B.O., horrible halitosis or some other gross problem. You have to figure there must be some reason he's stooping so low as to lure someone else's wife who lives thousands of miles and an ocean away. Obviously he's a loser who can't find anyone locally who's interested in him.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
