Please help me!!! As you all know, my wife recently posted on this board and offered to help some of you with your own sitch's. As you know, my "friend" Striver asked for her advice on his own sitch and offered his e-mail address.
Well, my wife and Striver have been talking and corresponding for a few weeks now. I was informed last night that my wife is traveling to see him in the UK and will be gone for ten days. They both tell me that what they have is more than friendship and that it just happened, didn't mean for it to happen, etc.
Folks, I am terrified....this is the mother of my children and someone I care deeply about yet she is traveling half way around the world to stay with someone SHE DOES NOT KNOW. This goes so against every rule of thumb about meeting people on the internet - and in this case where they met on a board where people are clearly vulnerable...well, it just scares the hell out of me - both for her own sake and for that of my children.
