hi everyone! got one here Helinka, how about..... me: What if I go out and have my own A so you know how it feels? H: If that will make you feel better.... what the f^^k is that? my SIL was trippin'! How messed up can you be? What's good for the goose is good for the gander I thought, but hell I know what committment means in my M, apparently H forgot! Can't tell you how many times that idea did run thru my mind though, but I wouldn't want to stoop to his level. I know I'm much stronger than that. Anyone else has something out there?