How's this one, "I've always been honest with you about everything, except this relationship" Or "There was another guy who wanted to go out with me, but I said NO because I'm a married woman" (She's presently in an A with someone else) Am I one ungrateful SOB or what! She's a saint and I just missed it. No wonder our M is in trouble! It's all my fault. I understand now! This thread has helped me see the light at last !!!