ok, just for fun and because I could use a laugh...what is the MOST ridiculous, preposterous thing your spouse has said to you? For instance: She's been having her cake and eating it too for 6 months while I do my best to DB. She fluctuates and flat tells me her "feelings are all over the map". Sat night she had tickets to a show with OW. Talking to her on the phone Sat while she was at work: me;"will you be out all night?" her; "oh yeah, that thing will be over really late". As though the time the play got out was the reason she was spending the night with the OW!!!!! You betcha! How will you explain every OTHER Saturday night for the last 6 months? I laughed outloud and quickly got myself off of the phone before I exploded. So, let's hear some of those absolutely ridiculous things you've heard, c'mon. Let's have a game of can you top this? How about my spouse, whom we all know is having the big PA commenting that someone else "must have no morals"! That has to be among the top 10!!! But I want to hear some others. Let's vent. It might keep me from strangling someone!
Patience is not only a virtue, sometimes it is an impossibility.