Here's an email I got from Susan. I love it! *************************
Dear Michele, Three weeks ago I felt that my marriage of 19 years ago was over. My husband wasn't communicating with me, we were arguing all the time. My thoughts were that nothing has changed in 19 years, why would it now. My divorced friends were telling me to leave him and how much better I would be without him. I went and talked to a therapist because of my confusion and frustration. At the end of our session I asked her if she could recommend any books that could help me. She happened to have a copy of Divorce Busting in her office that she had purchased at a recent seminar. I cannot tell you how much that book has changed my life, and I am sure my husband would agree. I went from feeling very depressed, angry and hopeless, to realizing just how wonderful my marriage can be and is. Just by changing my reactions to certain situations, it has, in turn, changed his also. Since I have been more clear on my needs that alone has solved a great deal of our fights, how hurtful misunderstandings can be. I know we will still have our diagreements and problems, but the changes being made now are wonderful and well worth it! (It's too bad my friends didn't read this book before they gave up.) Thank you again for having such a wonderful tool for couples to share.I am looking forward to reading your other books also.