Timing doesn't matter. I got the bomb dropped on my 7th year anny. It could have been the tenth day of any month it wouldn't make it any different for me. i pray that you will see his sorrow for the action as true. I hope it is. Honestly I wish my W would be here saying sorry instead of remorseless even in the company of her children who are really taking this hard. Always forgive even if you never forget. With your H you have the chance to still be with him. I'm sorry that's not the case with your father. Thats how I would put it in perspective
