Hi, I am new to this site. I went overseas to my Dad's funeral, while I was away, my H got drunk and slept with my best friend. (Her H was asleep in the next room). He didn't tell me, but I guessed because I knew he was acting strange. He lied about it and downplayed it, for example, said that they didn't actually have sex, because he was able to stop, etc, etc, but in the meantime she wrote and told me the story and to apologize. Now, I am still so hurt even though it has been 6 months, and every time I look at him I still feel sick, and can't believe that he would betray me like this and especially at a time when I needed him the most. It has obviously destroyed the relationship with me friend. He is also so angry all the time and has a really short temper with the kids,etc. I am not sure what to do as know that it was a once off thing and he feels really remorseful and we have tried to put it behind us, but gee, you know I just wonder why? Me..age 46 H..age 43 S...age 10 D..age 12 Married 13 years.
