I remember you too! I'll go check you out in Surviving.
The Separaton Agreement! Ah yes - I wrote it back in October. Got up the nerve to give it to him in January. He got up the nerve to make reference to it in March. We finally decided to let a professional help us and went the mediaton route in May. We now have a draft of a separation agreement that should be finalized within the month. As for actual D-I-V-O-R-CE? The word hasnt' been used. I'm hoping we stay legally separated for a time, but he may file for divorce. Once the agreement is signed, the bank will give me solo mortgage and I'll buy him out of the house, and I will own my own home! Imagine - little old me, doing it alone! Canadian laws are really good about protecting the custodial parent so we're getting a lot of money from him (none of it alimony) and he's been good about the split of equity. He'll be pretty broke for a long time. He has to live with her because he can't afford it alone.
So that's where we stand... almost legally separated.
