I've read "End of the Affair," but that was many years ago after the first affair. It was very helpful from what I recall. Yet, I really like "Not Just Friends." It has helped me see the affair in a completely different light. Lots of statistics and great information about healing after an affair.
Postive things today.... hummmm.... I'm not back at work yet. I like that I'm still enjoying my summer off even through financially it's a strain. Saw my husband tonight (after his dinner out with the kids). We sat on the couch holding hands and he said we need to talk more. It's funny, I seem to be the one avoiding talk. I just want to enjoy every moment of life lately, avoid serious topics and just live a carefree romantic life. It's so weird because I've never been this way before. I think my husband's MLC has thrown me into my own (although I think I have my head much more together... no interest in OM or getting a tattoo).
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
