jeanb, I haven't read your previous threads, so I don't know how your H has been acting before. Trusting when you know there is still some kind of contact, that's hard. My H is out of town for work, and OW might already be in the country. So he could easily arrange a rendez-vous. But I honestly don't think he could do that to me. Not now that we have made so much progress. What about you? You said that there are so many positives, would there really be any progress if H was still attached to OW? Oh I really don't know what the best approach is. I feel like asking so many questions, but H is just not ready to talk. I'd need so much reassurance, and him telling me it's over, but he's not giving it. But then again, his actions tell me that he wants to be with me and that he's happy.
Did he tell you about OW when it started or did you find out yourself? Could you see that something was wrong? I think you'd see the same kind of things if something was going on.
