thanks for your words, yes I believe H is definitely depressed and I saw you posted your H was depressed . WAs it was a big part of your H's reconnection to you when he sought help? When I mentioned to my H that he seems "unhappy" it brought anger to his voice, "NO, can't you see I am back, we are being a couple again, we are intimate, blah, blah"--but said with a tone of "leave that subject alone"
So thinking I must wait and see if H at anytime brings it up. I think the guilt of still having EA could be doing this also, unless to their egos they don't feel the guilt, they just need the stroking from the EA and is still in his own little poor me world.?
Thinking I am just journaling out loud and reminding myself that I need to continue to give this time, but was there a time when your H appreciated you bringing up the depression issue or seeking help? Hard to come off supportive, but at the same time realizing how much I cannot not fix for him and H needs to realize this all on his own.
