Cat, There is a home depot right near my son's preschool so I will make a point to go there after I drop him off this afternoon. I think the reason that S is so "attached" is because of all the crap that went on this past year. H came home very late 3-4 times a week and stayed out all night at least once every week. All the kids became very insecure as they didn't know if their family was staying together or falling apart.
Now that H has stopped doing all that and has started spending much more time with us it's like they can't get enough of him. I do agree in boundaries and bedtime rules though. The girls each stay in their own rooms, although they may be awake for a while. I have to work with our son though cause he comes in our bed EVERY night.
Whatis, I think you took my post the wrong way. I definitely think a little humor goes a long way. Bring it on!
Like PL said earlier. This is not a time for words, it is a time for action. The new doorknob will be the first step.
